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29 Under-$100 Buys R29 Editors Tried & Loved In September
29 Under-$100 Buys R29 Editors Tried & Loved In September
Not every month is so iconic that it has its own bop from Earth, Wind & Fire. (Okay, fine — I'm biased as it's also my birthday month.) But groovy songs aside, September is a solid month all around: Summer changes into fall, back-to-school season kicks into high gear (and no, you're never too old to get a fresh pack of Sharpies for the occasion), and cozy vibes are all around. There's also a ton of end-of-season sales, which make it an excellent opportunity to shop — and shop we did.
2023-10-13 06:58
7 of the Best Cat Litter Boxes, According to Experts
7 of the Best Cat Litter Boxes, According to Experts
Whether you’re shopping for senior cats or looking for an automatic model, the best cat litter boxes can improve the quality of life for you and your favorite feline.
2023-08-23 02:17
What Is Love? Who Am I? Google's Top Existential Questions Revealed
What Is Love? Who Am I? Google's Top Existential Questions Revealed
However you feel about Google Search these days, it's still an indispensible way to find
2023-06-13 01:16
NYT's The Mini crossword answers for October 15
NYT's The Mini crossword answers for October 15
The Mini is a bite-sized version of The New York Times' revered daily crossword. While
2023-10-15 19:54
Three years after George Floyd: hopes dashed, progress mixed
Three years after George Floyd: hopes dashed, progress mixed
It's been nearly three years since a white police officer put his knee on George Floyd's neck, asphyxiating the African-American man and sparking mass protests...
2023-05-22 10:22
Nearly three-quarters of mothers feel invisible, study suggests
Nearly three-quarters of mothers feel invisible, study suggests
Most women feel ‘invisible’ and ‘unappreciated’ when they become mothers, new research has revealed. Instead of ‘having it all’, 72% of mums feel invisible and 93% feel unappreciated, unacknowledged or unseen once they’ve had children. Another 93% said that since having a child, their identity has been reduced to only being a mother. And the weight of expectation is huge, too, with 97% of mums questioned in the survey by the online motherhood community Peanut saying pressure is put on them to ‘do it all and be it all’. Plus, 94% believe they’re expected to put themselves last and self-sacrifice for their families, partners, jobs, and other responsibilities, so they can achieve what they feel is required of them. Nearly half of mums (46%) said they don’t feel supported by the healthcare system after giving birth, and 70% expected more support from society in general. As a result of this lack of support and invisibility, most women surveyed (95%) agreed there’s an impact on their mental health and wellbeing, with 86% having experienced anxiety, 82% feeling stressed, burned out or exhausted, and 80% feeling overwhelmed, or lonely and isolated. Other strong feelings identified by mums included irritability (78%), loss of identity (65%), feeling judged (66%), feeling unsupported (64%), guilt (63%), depression (55%), resentment (54%), worthlessness (50%), and neglect (24%). Women attributed the things making them feel invisible to unfair division of labour in the home, trying to juggle a career and childcare, lack of empathy and understanding from both family and everyone else, gaps in healthcare and mental health support, identity and independence struggles, hiding the pain of pregnancy loss, and general pressure from healthcare, education institutions and the media. Commenting on the findings, psychologist Dr Rachel Goldman said: “The invisibility of motherhood is a stark reality many face. The journey begins with frequent visits to healthcare providers, but once the child arrives, there’s a sudden gap, creating a sense of abandonment. Women grapple with overwhelming feelings of exhaustion and stress, only to confront rushed appointments where healthcare professionals don’t have time to adequately dive into concerns.” As a result of the research, Peanut has launched an Invisible Mothers campaign, featuring a State of Invisibility report, to draw attention to mums’ struggles and highlight ways to make them more visible and better supported. The report found mums think more empathy and gender equality will help them feel more visible, with 82% calling for flexible, family-friendly workplaces, 77% wanting equal and extended leave for both parents, and 71% saying an equal share of parenting tasks would help. Additional measures that will help mums, says Peanut, include more public toilets having changing facilities, additional resources for mental health support, support groups for both parents, and educational initiatives about gender stereotypes. The report also identified the most common unwanted questions that contribute to mothers’ feelings of invisibility, with alternative suggestions that women say they would prefer to hear. So instead of asking ‘How’s the baby?’, Peanut suggests mums are asked ‘How are you really – mentally, emotionally and physically?’, and rather than ‘Was the pregnancy planned?’, try ‘Are you excited?’, and change ‘How do you do it all?’ to ‘How’s the mental load?’. Goldman added: “It doesn’t take grand gestures to offer support. A genuine ‘how are you’ or ‘thinking of you’ can significantly shift perceptions, signalling to someone that they matter. Small changes or actions, like compassionate conversations, can have profound impacts. “By acknowledging and addressing these issues, we can begin to truly support motherhood.” Read More The best ways to work-out in 22 minutes – as study finds this is magic number for offsetting ‘negative impact of sitting’ What crops will we be growing in the future, as climate change alters the landscape? As Rebecca Adlington shares heart-breaking miscarriage news: How to support others experiencing baby loss What you need to know about new research into treating cervical cancer How to do Halloween make up and still take care of your skin Which houseplants best suit your star sign?
2023-10-25 19:20
'Next Goal Wins' review: Taika Waititi fails hard at team comedy
'Next Goal Wins' review: Taika Waititi fails hard at team comedy
Taika Waititi is on a losing streak. Sure, last year the New Zealand actor/writer/director earned
2023-09-13 20:54
SpiceJet Is Most Delayed Indian Airline as Summer Rush Hits
SpiceJet Is Most Delayed Indian Airline as Summer Rush Hits
Passengers on cash-strapped SpiceJet Ltd. are experiencing the most flight disruptions in India, the world’s fastest-growing aviation market.
2023-07-04 10:17
7 Fashion Trends Taking Over 2023 — Shop Them Now
7 Fashion Trends Taking Over 2023 — Shop Them Now
Following spring and fall runway collections making a case for all we should expect this year, 2023’s biggest fashion trends have filled the racks at stores everywhere. What should we be buying?
2023-05-09 02:16
How to Safely Share Passwords Stored in Safari From Your iPhone or Mac
How to Safely Share Passwords Stored in Safari From Your iPhone or Mac
Want to share website passwords in Safari with certain friends and family members? Apple offers
2023-11-28 05:59
How to watch the UCI Cycling World Championships 2023 for free
How to watch the UCI Cycling World Championships 2023 for free
The Tour de France has only just finished, and we're not too far away from
2023-07-27 12:21
Nissan Leaf 2024 'Refresh' Doesn't Fix Its Charging Problem
Nissan Leaf 2024 'Refresh' Doesn't Fix Its Charging Problem
The 2024 Nissan Leaf will be slightly more expensive despite not updating its two biggest
2023-06-29 05:18