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Airlines Scramble to Restore Service After UK System Outage
Airlines Scramble to Restore Service After UK System Outage
Airlines are scrambling to restore normal flight operations in the UK and repatriate stranded passengers after an hours-long
2023-08-29 15:51
Trader Joe's issues its sixth recall in two months
Trader Joe's issues its sixth recall in two months
Trader Joe's has issued another food recall — its sixth since July.
2023-08-31 20:46
Nvidia Sees Blockbuster Quarter Thanks to AI Chip Demand
Nvidia Sees Blockbuster Quarter Thanks to AI Chip Demand
Demand for generative AI has translated into skyrocketing financial growth for Nvidia, even as sales
2023-08-24 07:49
Scientists find proof of unprecedented sun explosion hitting Earth
Scientists find proof of unprecedented sun explosion hitting Earth
Our mild-mannered sun is capable of some mighty solar explosions. Fortunately for us, Earth's atmosphere
2023-10-14 18:24
Ezra Miller and the superhero machine: What to know about allegations against 'The Flash' star
Ezra Miller and the superhero machine: What to know about allegations against 'The Flash' star
If you have experienced sexual abuse, call the free, confidential National Sexual Assault hotline at
2023-05-13 17:48
Former Alibaba CEO quits cloud unit in surprise move amid landmark restructuring
Former Alibaba CEO quits cloud unit in surprise move amid landmark restructuring
Daniel Zhang, the outgoing chairman and CEO of Alibaba, has stepped down from his position running the company's cloud division in a surprise move announced just months after he assumed the pivotal role.
2023-09-11 16:50
Men experience imposter syndrome too – here’s how to overcome it
Men experience imposter syndrome too – here’s how to overcome it
Imposter syndrome isn’t a disease, but it can do real damage to our confidence and self-esteem if it’s goes unchecked. And while it’s often associated with women, men can experience it too – as recently highlighted. Speaking on BBC Radio 4’s Last Word recently, Mike Parkinson revealed that his father, Sir Michael Parkinson – who died aged 88 earlier this month – dealt with “imposter syndrome” and “was wracked with self-doubt”. He went on to say that the well loved late chat show host, who interviewed the likes of Victoria and David Beckham and Muhammad Ali during his career, “didn’t have as much self-confidence as he appeared to have on TV”. The director also said that despite his father’s obvious success, he was “still very class ridden” and “very insecure”. These words will no doubt strike a chord with many. Here’s a closer look and imposter syndrome and what men can do to help manage it. What is imposter syndrome? “Impostor syndrome is not a mental illness. It is rather a term applied to the internal psychological experience of feeling like a fraud in a particular area in your life, despite evidence of success or external validation,” says Dr Jon van Niekerk, group clinical director at Cygnet Health Care. It is also a myth that men do not suffer from impostor syndrome... “It might come as a surprise to some, but it is fairly common experience, with 70% of people having at least one episode at some point,” he adds. “It is also a myth that men do not suffer from impostor syndrome. In fact, research has shown that if surveys are anonymous, there are similar levels of these symptoms between men and women. The difference is that men can find it more difficult to talk about these feelings.” What signs might they experience? Dr Elena Touroni, consultant psychologist and co-founder of The Chelsea Psychology Clinic, believes at its core, imposter syndrome is associated with “feelings of self-doubt sparking fears of being ‘exposed’ as a fraud, or diminishing genuine achievements and attributing them to luck rather than skill”. She adds: “On the surface, these internal battles might manifest as overworking to prove one’s worth, delaying tasks due to fear of imperfection, or an unending quest for validation.” As a result, van Niekerk says men could “compensate by overworking to achieve impossible standards they set themselves. Many people that have impostor syndrome are ‘overachievers’ and their personal and family life suffers. “Some people also self-sabotage their relationships, as they do not believe the deserve affection from others,” he adds. “If not managed well, it can ultimately lead to burnout and more severe mental health issues, like depression and anxiety.” What are the possible causes?There are various factors that play a role in imposter syndrome, especially as people may have different triggers for these feelings, and in different areas of their lives. “These feelings and beliefs can often be traced back to schemas – mental blueprints formed by our early experiences,” says Touroni. “These schemas shape our perception of ourselves, the world, and our place in it. When early experiences involve neglect, abandonment or overly critical parents/caregivers, it can lead to a lasting belief of not being ‘good enough’.” How can men overcome imposter syndrome? Reflecting on your strengths and positive past experiences is often a great place to start. “It is important to not just accept self-defeating thoughts. If you experience these thoughts, it is important to note them and remind yourself of why you are in a particular position, and what past accomplishments you have had,” says van Niekerk. “Once you open up, you will be surprised how many people struggle with similar thoughts. Usually, these settle down once you have been in a particular role for some time, but if they impact on you pursuing your goals or your relationships, it might be helpful to speak to a therapist.” Touroni adds: “Imposter feelings tend to run deep. But, with dedication and the right support, they can be challenged and changed. A therapist can help you unearth the origins of these beliefs, challenge their accuracy, and cultivate healthier, more empowering perspectives and coping mechanisms.” Read More Charity boss speaks out over ‘traumatic’ encounter with royal aide Ukraine war’s heaviest fight rages in east - follow live 8 of the coolest plants for shady gardens This is how stress affects different parts of the body Curls feeling frazzled? 6 ways to repair summer hair damage
2023-08-29 15:47
This TikTok Runner Went Viral For Finding Shorts That Don’t Ride Up
This TikTok Runner Went Viral For Finding Shorts That Don’t Ride Up
Part of TikTok’s compulsively watchable appeal is the FYP’s ability to show you new things that also feel like exactly what you were looking for — you just didn’t know it yet. Like when I stumbled on a viral video from a runner who had found the impossible: running shorts that don’t ride up. When Erin Azar — also known as Mrs. Space Cadet, the “professional struggle runner” — appeared on my TikTok feed, I felt like the algo hit hard. As a person who is often unmotivated to finish any sort of creative or personal task, the literal push I was seeing from Azar and her runs really got me emotional and inspired (Azar is also hilarious, so there’s lots of giggling, too). She also often reviews running gear, including the elusive shorts that won’t ride up.
2023-06-29 01:15
Canada wildfires shroud New York in apocalyptic haze
Canada wildfires shroud New York in apocalyptic haze
Smoke from Canadian wildfires shrouded New York in an apocalyptic smog Wednesday as cities along the US East Coast issued air quality alerts and thousands...
2023-06-08 04:51
Disney use of AI for Marvel TV series spooks Hollywood
Disney use of AI for Marvel TV series spooks Hollywood
The use of artificial intelligence in the new Marvel superhero series "Secret Invasion" has sparked anxiety and anger in Hollywood, at a time when television and film writers are...
2023-06-23 05:20
Apple introduces new iCloud+ plans with 6TB and 12TB of storage
Apple introduces new iCloud+ plans with 6TB and 12TB of storage
For some, the big news coming out of today's Apple event might be the long-awaited
2023-09-13 05:25
In Nigeria's Muslim north, sharia police change tack on influencers
In Nigeria's Muslim north, sharia police change tack on influencers
Tiktoker Murja Kunya once ran afoul of sharia police in Nigeria's northwest city of Kano, where "hisbah" units enforce Islamic law...
2023-11-24 16:22