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Get a pair of Apple AirPods Max headphones for nearly $100 off
Get a pair of Apple AirPods Max headphones for nearly $100 off
SAVE $99.01: Get a pair of Apple AirPods Max for $449.99 when you select the
2023-09-08 01:22
When will 'Worst Cooks in America: Love at First Bite' Season 27 air? Release date, time, and how to watch Food Network show
When will 'Worst Cooks in America: Love at First Bite' Season 27 air? Release date, time, and how to watch Food Network show
Sixteen singles with amateur cooking skills come together on the Food Network show
2023-08-02 21:26
JR East Reports Outage in Suica Mobile App, Online Bookings
JR East Reports Outage in Suica Mobile App, Online Bookings
East Japan Railway Co. said part of its computer system, including online ticket booking, credit card settlement and
2023-06-24 10:15
Woman claims boyfriend period-shamed her for disposing menstrual pads in his trash
Woman claims boyfriend period-shamed her for disposing menstrual pads in his trash
A woman has enlisted help from the internet after sharing that her boyfriend shamed her for disposing of her menstrual pads in his bathroom while she was on her period. This week, Reddit user u/ThrowAway568931 went viral when she asked in the popular forum r/AmITheA**hole if she was in the wrong for throwing away her used pads in her boyfriend’s trash can. As she explained how her boyfriend called her “disgusting” for disposing of her menstrual pads at his house, many people have since called attention to what’s known as “period shaming”. The 18-year-old girl revealed in the viral post that she’s been dating her 23-year-old boyfriend for about three months, and that this was the first time she spent the night over at his place while she was on her period. “Since yesterday, I’ve been changing my pads in his bathroom and each time, I wrapped the used pad in a plastic wrapper and put it in the trash can,” she wrote. “The trash can has a lid and there’s a plastic garbage bag in there, so the pad was touching nothing but the trash that was already inside.” “I genuinely didn’t think it was a big deal, until my boyfriend took out the trash this morning and noticed the plastic wrappers in the bag,” she continued. “He knew they were the packaging for my pads because he had seen them before and quite outraged, he asked whether my used pads were also in that bag.” When she informed him that she had disposed of her pads in his trash, she claimed that he called her “disgusting” and told her to “take out the trash myself.” He then told his girlfriend that she should’ve “just kept” the pads in her purse until she got home, despite the fact that she was sleeping over at his apartment for the next three days. “He stated that he didn’t want my blood all over his trash and that I should find another way to dispose of my pads ASAP,” she said, adding: “I don’t think my attempt of an explanation why period blood isn’t as disgusting as he thinks it is got through to him and he’s quite set on his opinion.” The Reddit user believed her boyfriend “was a bit childish” because she didn’t “understand how an adult straight man can be so disgusted by period blood,” but when she texted her 19-year-old brother, he agreed with her boyfriend. “As I’ve been outnumbered, I wanted to see whether other people also believe what I did was an AH [a**hole] move.” Unsurprisingly, her post was immediately flooded by thousands of Reddit users encouraging her to break up with her “immature” boyfriend. “Please put him in the trash. Get yourself an adult boyfriend,” read one comment. “Women’s bodies are not gross. Imagine him having daughters with him behaving like this.” “He is too immature to date, he’s not ready for a relationship with a woman,” another person wrote. “He’s not the one, not for you and not for anyone until he learns to be more accepting of bodies.” Others pointed out that menstrual cycles are not something to be ashamed about, like one person who said: “I can’t imagine going through cramps, the hassle of leaks, and the overall discomfort of a period and on top of that having someone shame you for it.” “You deserve to be with a man that understands that menstrual cycles are part of life and not something to be grossed out about,” they added. While menstruation is a natural part of life, there has been much shame and stigma around “that time of the month.” In 2018, a poll found that nearly half of women in the United States have experienced “period shaming” – being made to feel a sense of embarrassment simply because they were on their period. The research – which was commissioned by feminine hygiene company THINX – even found that 42 per cent of women have experienced period-shaming, with one in five being made to have these feelings because of comments made by a male friend. Meanwhile, 12 per cent of women have been shamed by a family member and one in 10 by a classmate. Additionally, 44 per cent of men admitted to having made a joke about or comment on their partner’s mood when she was on her period. More than half of the men involved in the study also believed that it is inappropriate for women to openly mention their menstrual cycles in the workplace, which is likely why 73 per cent of women surveyed said they’ve hid a pad or tampon from view on their way to the bathroom. After her post went viral on Reddit, she revealed in a follow-up post that she didn’t break up with her boyfriend just yet, but she has cut her three-day visit short. “I’ll be honest, I did post this hoping someone would back me up on this, but I didn’t expect to have hundreds of people telling me to break up with my boyfriend,” said u/ThrowAway568931. “I think you’ll be pleased to hear that I’ve cut my visit short and gone home for the time being,” she explained. “No break-up I could talk about yet, but I’ve taken the comments to heart and if I don’t get some kind of explanation/apology in the near future, I’ll have to reconsider whether maintaining this relationship is actually worth it.” Read More Triathlete proudly shares ‘beautiful’ racing photo where she bled through swimsuit while on her period Bullies criticised a photo of my period stain during a triathlon. 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2023-06-07 01:55
Gun safety PSA urges gun owners to join the conversation on preventable firearm deaths
Gun safety PSA urges gun owners to join the conversation on preventable firearm deaths
Gun reform advocates are appealing to all those affected by gun violence, including gun owners
2023-07-11 17:53
5 crucial tips for 'Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom' beginners
5 crucial tips for 'Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom' beginners
So, you've given in to the hype and picked up The Legend of Zelda: Tears
2023-05-27 01:18
21 best crime documentaries on Netflix right now
21 best crime documentaries on Netflix right now
True crime is a genre that not only delves into dark tales of murder but
2023-08-30 17:15
Get the Forerunner 245 Music smartwatch for 38% off, plus more of the best Garmin deals ahead of Prime Day
Get the Forerunner 245 Music smartwatch for 38% off, plus more of the best Garmin deals ahead of Prime Day
Chances are, you associate Garmin with GPS systems: You know, those old-school devices that we
2023-07-07 19:55
Top Explorer Urges Caution With Boom in Sea and Space Adventures
Top Explorer Urges Caution With Boom in Sea and Space Adventures
The demise of five people aboard a submersible touring the Titanic’s underwater wreckage has even the most prominent
2023-06-26 18:56
Thousands of flights delayed as bad weather threatens Eastern US
Thousands of flights delayed as bad weather threatens Eastern US
More than 1,100 flights have been canceled Monday across the United States -- and more than 3,000 delayed -- as severe weather threatens many eastern states.
2023-08-08 03:26
A passenger took over controls and crash landed a small plane at Martha's Vineyard Airport after the pilot suffered a medical condition, officials say
A passenger took over controls and crash landed a small plane at Martha's Vineyard Airport after the pilot suffered a medical condition, officials say
A pilot of a small plane suffered a medical emergency in the air Saturday, prompting a passenger to take over controls and make a crash landing with no landing gear at Martha's Vineyard Airport, authorities said.
2023-07-17 11:18
Solar flares are shooting into space. How you'll know if one's trouble.
Solar flares are shooting into space. How you'll know if one's trouble.
A number of spacecraft are staring directly into the sun. And for good reason. Space
2023-07-04 17:54