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This 8-piece Japanese Master Chef knife set is $140
This 8-piece Japanese Master Chef knife set is $140
TL;DR: As of August 23, you can get the Seido Japanese Master Chef's Eight-Piece Knife
2023-08-23 17:26
NYT Connections today: See hints and answers for October 12
NYT Connections today: See hints and answers for October 12
Connections is the latest New York Times word game that's captured the public's attention. The
2023-10-12 10:49
‘Boy moms’ receive backlash for teaching sons how to cook - but for the wrong reason
‘Boy moms’ receive backlash for teaching sons how to cook - but for the wrong reason
Many people are calling out mothers of sons - also known as “boy moms” - for the reason why they’re teaching their sons how to cook, as some people call it a “red flag”. The TikTok trend first began when user Laura Elizabeth Graham shared a video of herself cooking in the kitchen with her young son, as she wrote over the clip: “Making sure my son can cook so he’s not impressed by your daughter’s [Stouffer’s] lasagna.” She continued to write in the video’s caption that her son would need a “home-cooked meal” from his future wife. Meanwhile, fellow “boy moms” also hopped on the trend, as one shared a similar video how she was teaching her son cooking skills so “he’s not impressed by your frozen pizza daughter”. The videos have since sparked a debate, as many users replied that they were teaching their sons to cook “because it’s a necessary life skill for independence.” “Teaching my son to cook because it’s a basic necessity,” one person commented under Graham’s video. Another person proclaimed they were “team daughter-in-law,” while one viewer added that the trend was “screaming red flags”. In response to the TikTok trend, some mothers took the opportunity to point out that showing young boys how to cook - just so that he’s not “impressed” by someone else’s cuisine - only teaches him to expect a higher level of household labour from his future partner. In fact, TikTok user Payal Desai posted a series of videos showing the ways in which she was teaching her sons how to take care of themselves - emotionally and physically - as they grow older. In one video, Desai showed her sons how to clean the dishes and explained why she does it: “So your daughter doesn’t have to deal with a man who was catered to his whole life.” @lauraelizabethgraham He’s gonna need a home cooked meal Felicia ? #boymom #boymomlife #boymomsoftiktok #mamasboy #mommasboy #mamasboys #relatablemom #motherinlaw #motherinlawproblems #momsoftiktok IB: @brontevictoria.capowski ♬ original sound - Laura Elizabeth Graham Many mothers of young boys also joined in, showing the ways in which they were empowering their sons to be more self-sufficient and responsible. Meanwhile, psychologist and mother Amber Wardell reacted to the TikTok trend, saying in a video: “I’m teaching my son to cook so that he will show up for his future wife as though she’s his partner and not his servant.” The ongoing trend to categorise parents as a “boy mom” or “girl dad” reportedly perpetuates gender stereotypes. “The gendering process then continues through quite literally every aspect of that child’s life: the pink or blue newborn hospital beanie, the princess or football player clothing gifted at the baby shower, the jungle or fairyland nursery room decor, and of course, the toy trucks or baby dolls,” Dr Jessica N Pabón-Colón - an associate professor of women’s, gender, and sexuality studies at SUNY New Paltz - explained to Refinery29 in 2021. @payalforstyle No dust here. #dustyson #dustydaughter #trend #boymom ♬ original sound - Bryan Pabón-Colón emphasised that juxtaposing opposite genders, in hashtags like #BoyMom, also reinforces supposed gender differences. Speaking to the outlet, she explained that both the #GirlDad and #BoyMom trend “announces the ‘feminine’ mother’s ability to parent a child whose ‘masculine’ gender is different from hers,” and ultimately suggests that parents of the opposite gender have to try harder to relate to their girls and boys. @sensible_amber This is how we create snobby, entitled men who treat their wives like the help and constantly compare them to mommy dearest. Let’s teach our boys to be self-sufficient, nurturing, compassionate, and supportive. Let’s teach them that their wives do not exist to be their mommies. Most importantly, let’s teach our sons that it is HEALTHY and NORMAL for them to one day leave us and become more attached to their wives than they are to us, and that this is what we WANT for them. Otherwise, we’ll all end up with our boys living with us forever — not because they love us but because no women will have them. They’ll be divorced, lonely and miserable, and we’ll still be cooking their meals. Is this really what we want for our sons? #motherhood #momlife #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodunited #parenting #boymom #biymomculture #toxicboymomculture ♬ original sound - Amber Although seemingly innocuous, she suggested that this mentality does more harm than good. While the hashtags themselves aren’t harmful, Pabón-Colón emphasised that their stereotypes are limiting. She argued that “the label ‘boy’ cannot possibly contain [a child’s] personality traits,” and that there’s more to any one person than their sex or gender. “Having a vulva does not explain a child’s desire to have a tea party with their dad any more than having a penis explains a child’s desire to climb a tree with their mom,” Pabón-Colón said. The Independent has contacted Laura Elizabeth Graham for comment. 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2023-08-26 04:29
China Crashes Germany’s Least-German Car Show in History
China Crashes Germany’s Least-German Car Show in History
The I- in IAA, the name of Germany’s annual auto show, stands for international. This year’s event is
2023-09-01 14:53
Penn Badgley confirms Season 5 will be the last of 'You'
Penn Badgley confirms Season 5 will be the last of 'You'
It's official! You Season 5 is going to be the last installment in the Joe-verse.
2023-06-18 05:19
American-JetBlue Alliance Blocked by Judge as Anti-Competitive
American-JetBlue Alliance Blocked by Judge as Anti-Competitive
American Airlines Group Inc. and JetBlue Airways Corp. must dissolve a partnership covering flights across the northeastern US
2023-05-20 04:15
Like dogs, wolves recognize familiar human voices
Like dogs, wolves recognize familiar human voices
Here, wolfie, wolfie...
2023-06-24 02:17
Tempur-Pedic’s Luxe & Best-Rated Cooling Mattress Is Worth The Splurge
Tempur-Pedic’s Luxe & Best-Rated Cooling Mattress Is Worth The Splurge
There are people who would be just as happy sleeping on a camping cot as they would be snoozing at the Ritz. Firm, soft, cooling, adjustable: these are all meaningless buzzwords that don’t affect their sleep at all. But then there are those of us who not only have high standards in a mattress, we require a truly good one to sleep in. For my fellow creatures of comfort, the perfectly acceptable “one size fits all” mattresses won’t do. This is where Temper-Pedic’s most luxe mattresses come into play. Far more than a basic foam mattress, these beds mold to your body and encase you in a cool cocoon that’ll relax your tense nerves and drift you off to dreamland.
2023-06-03 05:20
Apple and AAA partner to offer roadside assistance via satellite SOS
Apple and AAA partner to offer roadside assistance via satellite SOS
Next time you're stranded in the desert, you might be thankful you dropped $1,000 on
2023-09-14 01:24
The Second Adidas x Sporty & Rich Collab Includes Summer-Ready Sambas
The Second Adidas x Sporty & Rich Collab Includes Summer-Ready Sambas
Sportswear lovers have plenty to celebrate this summer thanks to a new collection from Adidas and Sporty & Rich. Launching on June 15, the second collaboration between the two brands once again fuses Adidas’ street style-cool aesthetic with Sporty & Rich’s retro vibes.
2023-06-15 21:20
These renewable energy engineering courses are $46
These renewable energy engineering courses are $46
TL;DR: As of August 10, you can get the 2023 Complete Renewable Energy Engineer Preparation
2023-08-10 17:57
Maine lawmakers are a single vote from approval of bill to allow later abortions
Maine lawmakers are a single vote from approval of bill to allow later abortions
The Maine House has voted again to allow later abortions in some circumstances, putting the proposal one final vote away from going to the governor for her signature
2023-06-28 09:53