Lodaa is Your Ultimate Source for the Latest Lifestyle News, Trends, Tips in Health, Fashion, Travel, Food and Culture.
⎯ 《 Lodaa • Com 》
Not Feeling “American Enough”: The Mental Impact of Cross-Cultural Adoption
Not Feeling “American Enough”: The Mental Impact of Cross-Cultural Adoption
When Eun Ae Koh was 8 months old, she was adopted from her birthplace in Korea by two white Americans. Overnight, she gained two loving parents, three older brothers, and an older sister and spent her childhood and teen years growing up in rural Illinois, about three and a half hours south of Chicago, not far off from fields of soybeans and corn. With her parents’ older biological children already grown up and moved out, it wasn’t until the pair adopted a second child, from China, a decade later, that Koh saw anyone who looked like her at home.
2023-05-16 02:18
'We belong': Muslim Kosovo's first LGBTQ bar is booming
'We belong': Muslim Kosovo's first LGBTQ bar is booming
As the sun rises over Pristina, the call to prayer echoes through the Kosovo capital just as the patrons of its only LGBTQ bar wrap...
2023-11-28 14:20
What’s A Good Nail Polish Color? These Are 5 Trending Fall Shades
What’s A Good Nail Polish Color? These Are 5 Trending Fall Shades
Welcome to fall, a season of new energy. We’re shopping for upcoming weddings, getting haircuts, going back to school or the office full time. When it comes to choosing something as seemingly mundane as a nail polish color for September and October (Libra season!), we’re being mindful about the tones we’re gravitating towards and why — because even more fun than painting your nails is doing it with intention.
2023-09-07 00:24
Many parents don't know when kids are behind in school. Are report cards telling enough?
Many parents don't know when kids are behind in school. Are report cards telling enough?
Nearly nine out of 10 parents believe their child is performing at grade level despite standardized tests showing far fewer students are on track
2023-11-15 13:47
The Most Famous Vibrator On Amazon, According To 58,000 Orgasmic Reviews
The Most Famous Vibrator On Amazon, According To 58,000 Orgasmic Reviews
We call them hidden gems, but it’s no secret that Amazon boasts a treasure trove of the internet’s most viral products. From the best summer dresses under $100 to cult-favorite cleaning supplies, Amazon’s proverbial shelves are chock full of must-have items. With swift shipping, discreet doorstep delivery, and seemingly endless stock, it’s no surprise that the smorgasbord of sex toys on Amazon is one of the best out there. Its immense offerings include not only popular name brands, but also lesser-known labels and in-house options aren’t just well-performing, they’re also extensively reviewer-vetted. If you’re looking for a clitoral stimulator or oral sex toy on Amazon, there’s a standout that’s skyrocketing to viral-bestseller status. The Satisfyer Pro 2 currently boasts an impressive 58,967 reviews total (primed to break through to 59k at any second!) and is backed by an impassioned community who swear by its ability to get them off. Every. Damn. Time. “Exorcism needed after using this bad mamma jamma,” states one satisfied customer. “Will rob your body and soul like a thief in the night,” attests another. “I could feel colors and smell numbers,” brags another. You get the picture. Available in three colors — chic rose gold, icy blue, and frosted violet — Amazon’s most famous vibrator is made even better by its incredibly affordable price tag. That’s right: this superstar vibrator, which essentially owns the top spot in Amazon’s Clitoral Stimulator Hall Of Fame, will only set you back $35.
2023-06-27 02:25
Israel-Hamas conflict: How to talk to teenagers about distressing news stories
Israel-Hamas conflict: How to talk to teenagers about distressing news stories
With all the access teenagers today have to the internet and social media, they may see more distressing news stories than even their parents. Palestinian militant group Hamas – deemed a terrorist group by the UK Government – invaded Israel on Saturday from Gaza, with rocket attacks by air as well as military in boats. Since then, Israel has sealed the Hamas-ruled Gaza Strip off from food, fuel, medicine and other supplies, while launching retaliatory air strikes on the territory, which is home to 2.3 million people. The most recent numbers suggest 900 people have been killed in Israel, 700 in the Gaza territory and the West Bank, and many hostages have been taken. Hamas has pledged to kill captured Israeli hostages if attacks target civilians in Gaza. The conflict has sparked protests by pro-Palastine and pro-Israel groups in the UK and prompted political division on social media. Teenagers are likely to be exposed to a lot of the news, internet discussion and perhaps distressing images of conflict. So how should parents approach this? Talk about it at home Dr Jeri Tikare, clinical psychologist at Kooth, a digital mental health platform, believes parents should be as truthful as they can with their teenagers. “This means that it is important for us to not to hide things away from them. It is better for them to hear it from us (their people of safety) as opposed to reading it or hearing it from others,” he says. “Also bearing in mind the curious nature of the mind. It is inevitable that for things that they do not understand, they might research and look for answers. “It can be helpful if they get their information from a reliable source which can feel contained and reassuring. But share information at a level that is developmentally right and just enough to help the young person feel contained and safe.” Check yourself As the parent, learn the basics of what is going in the conflict yourself from reputable sources so you can have balanced, informed conversations with your child. “It can also be useful to be aware of our own reactions as parents or primary caregivers,” he says. “One of the ways young people learn and develop is via observing and then modelling adult behaviour. Hence, they can pick up anxieties or worries displayed by parents.” Validate and normalise expressing emotion If your teen is particularly affected by distressing news stories about war and conflict, Tikare encourages parents to give their teenagers the opportunity to express how they are feeling in different ways – such as writing, drawing, stories, songs, and things that feel helpful for the young person. “Some find a feelings box helpful,” he adds. “It might also be helpful to introduce them to some simple relaxation techniques such as taking three deep, slow breaths, breathing in for a count of three and out for three.” Be there for them Giving your teenager the space, time and encouragement to open up about how they feel on any subject – world news or otherwise – is key. “I know that life can be hard, busy and sometimes young people are aware of this and might not want to disturb you,” Tikare says. “Therefore, it might be helpful to make a conscious effort to let them know that you are mindful of how difficult it can be and reassure them that you are available to talk about things. “Giving them extra love and attention at this time can be helpful, especially at difficult times like this.” Discuss social media Tikare acknowledges that television, social media and other platforms “can be very distressing and exacerbating” for teenagers. But you may not be able to prise your child away from posting on their social media accounts altogether. “It would depend on the motivation behind posting and where they are posting,” Tikare says. “Posting about the feelings experienced around the conflict in a supportive and possibly moderated space, with people sharing similar feelings associated with the conflict, can help normalise the experience and leave them feeling less alone. “On the other hand, it could also expose them to content and comments that could potentially trigger distress.” So be sure to make them aware of the content they may come across online. Read More Autumn décor ideas for a seasonal refresh Why you shouldn’t tidy your garden too much in autumn World Mental Health Day: 5 ways to beat anxiety and change your life Alternative veg to grow for next season How to spot if your child is struggling with their mental health – and what to do next Does your pillowcase make a difference to your skin and hair health?
2023-10-10 20:51
There's a Better Way to Use Your Potato Peeler
There's a Better Way to Use Your Potato Peeler
The blade of your potato peeler swivels for a good reason.
2023-06-14 22:20
Reddit removes years of chat and message archives from users' accounts
Reddit removes years of chat and message archives from users' accounts
The Reddit blackout protests didn't quite force the company to reverse course on its API
2023-07-15 01:50
How America fell out of love with ice cream
How America fell out of love with ice cream
America's age-old love affair with ice cream appears to be winding down.
2023-07-16 17:19
It's Jamie Foxx, John Boyega, and Teyonah Parris vs. the government in 'They Cloned Tyrone' trailer
It's Jamie Foxx, John Boyega, and Teyonah Parris vs. the government in 'They Cloned Tyrone' trailer
Jamie Foxx, John Boyega, AND Teyonah Parris — I'm already seated for They Cloned Tyrone.
2023-06-14 02:49
This 3-in-1 wireless charging station is just $33
This 3-in-1 wireless charging station is just $33
TL;DR: As of Oct. 26, you can snag a 3-in-1 wireless charging pad for your
2023-10-26 17:53
Spotify launches 'daylist' because it knows your music taste varies throughout the day
Spotify launches 'daylist' because it knows your music taste varies throughout the day
Are you more of a "yearning and melodramatic" Tuesday morning person or a "dance energy"
2023-09-12 18:58