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UK officials warn low measles immunization rates could lead to tens of thousands of cases in London
UK officials warn low measles immunization rates could lead to tens of thousands of cases in London
Britain’s Health Security Agency said that measles vaccination rates in parts of London have dropped so low that the capital could see tens of thousands of cases of the rash-causing disease
2023-07-14 18:53
Does Dixie D'Amelio have premenstrual dysphoric disorder? Here's what we know
Does Dixie D'Amelio have premenstrual dysphoric disorder? Here's what we know
'I wasn't feeling great and not really sure why,' Dixie D'Amelio said
2023-06-11 15:28
I Tried $1,228 Worth Of Hair Straightening Tools To Find The One Of My Dreams
I Tried $1,228 Worth Of Hair Straightening Tools To Find The One Of My Dreams
Is it just me or have we reached peak hair tools? Between the Dyson Airstrait, ghd’s Duet Hot Air Styler, and the much anticipated restock of Amika’s Blowout Babe Thermal Brush, it seems we all want to achieve beautiful, bouncy hair — no matter the cost.
2023-08-21 22:00
AMC Abandons Plan to Charge More for Best Cinema Seats
AMC Abandons Plan to Charge More for Best Cinema Seats
AMC Entertainment Holdings Inc. is dropping a plan to charge more for the best theater seats after moviegoers
2023-07-21 00:53
How to support someone coming out in their 30s and beyond
How to support someone coming out in their 30s and beyond
Coming out can be hard at any age, but by the time you’re well into adulthood it may feel terrifying, and be completely life-changing. Many people who come out in their thirties and onwards may have wanted to for a long time but not felt safe enough to do so. As October 11 marks National Coming Out Day, it’s important to reflect on how, if and when people can share their authentic selves. “I wasn’t raised in a time when it felt safe to express attraction to women,” says author and creative mentor Fiona Fletcher Reid, who came out last year at the age of 35. “I wasn’t sure about my sexuality until I had psychosexual therapy and was able to explore all the layers of internalised homophobia and repression that I had accumulated over my 35 years,” she says. So, how you can support someone who is going through it? Don’t assume everyone is the same Not every person’s coming out looks the same, and some LGBTQ+ experiences are not universal. “Coming out is a personal experience and because it is often physically and emotionally dangerous to be openly queer, lots of people never feel able to be open,” says Fletcher Reid, now 36. “Some people might feel free to come out once they have ended a particular relationship, or after meeting people who they feel safe around. “For others, like me, it’s that we don’t consciously acknowledge our sexuality until we are a lot older and have the confidence to work through the emotional implications and real-life consequences that come with that,” The writer, from Glasgow, was going through a divorce at the time with a man she’d been with since the age of 17. “During therapy, I talked a lot about the pain I was experiencing during intercourse as well as my general anxiety around sex. It wasn’t until I’d built up a trusting relationship with my therapist that I felt able to discuss the fact that I thought I might be gay and I did not expect that to come up, so I was just as surprised as everyone else when I came out.” Don’t question their authenticity Validate what the person who has come out is saying. “Don’t say, ‘Are you sure?’ because you can rest assured that the person coming out to you has thought long and hard about this,” says Fletcher Reid. “Casting self-doubt on someone when they have opened up a vulnerable part of themselves to you is hurtful.” Don’t question them about their sex life It’s no one else’s business. “Please don’t ask about whether they have been intimate with anyone, or any other sort of suggestion that they need to ‘prove’ their sexuality to you,” she stresses. Consider what they feel and accept that it is a big deal They are probably feeling “a mix of emotions, including excited, happy, empowered and scared for their safety”, says Fletcher Reid. “Sadly coming out can still cause huge ruptures in relationships so be aware that this is a huge moment for them and comes with real consequences. “Dismissing their experience as ‘not a big deal’ because you think it’s ‘normal to be gay’ now is a dangerous and false narrative.” It may sound simple, but just listening and supporting them is vital. “Be there to listen and try to celebrate all the new things that they are exploring as they come out, whether that’s dating, meeting new people or finding ways to experiment with their identity through fashion,” says Fletcher Reid. “Repeat often that you love and care for them and that you accept this evolution of them, that you are happy to see them happy.” Suggest they find community “Encourage them to talk to other people who have been through similar experiences if you can,” she says. “As much as friends and family want to understand what they are going through, it is far more validating to talk to someone else who has come out later in life and understands the emotional intricacies of the experience. “They can also hopefully show them that there are good times ahead.” Thank them for sharing with you “It is a privilege that someone trusts you with coming out, especially later in life. Tell them that you are honoured to have been trusted with this information, and reassure them that you will keep it private until they are ready to tell other people,” Fletcher Reid suggests. “The best reactions that I had from people were seeing their joy that I had discovered this important part of myself, and that had a huge impact on my ability to feel hopeful amidst the pain caused by my divorce. “Allowing them to feel conflicted and guilty and offering reassurance that they have the right to be themselves will make them feel so much happier.” Read More Israel-Hamas conflict: How to talk to teenagers about distressing news stories Autumn décor ideas for a seasonal refresh Why you shouldn’t tidy your garden too much in autumn World Mental Health Day: 5 ways to beat anxiety and change your life Alternative veg to grow for next season How to spot if your child is struggling with their mental health – and what to do next
2023-10-11 13:49
Twitter takeover: 1 year later, X struggles with misinformation, advertising and usage decline
Twitter takeover: 1 year later, X struggles with misinformation, advertising and usage decline
One year ago, billionaire Elon Musk walked into Twitter’s San Francisco headquarters with a white bathroom sink and a grin, fired its CEO and other top executives and began transforming the social media platform into what is now known as X
2023-10-27 12:24
The Best Laptops for Kids in 2023
The Best Laptops for Kids in 2023
Just as it is with smartphones, buying your kid a laptop is fraught with concerns,
2023-11-01 03:46
Are people actually using TikTok for news?
Are people actually using TikTok for news?
It has been nearly four years since I made my first TikTok, bright-eyed and sporting
2023-10-20 19:47
How to try Google's text-to-music generator MusicLM
How to try Google's text-to-music generator MusicLM
MusicLM, an experimental tool from Google that turns written prompts into music, is now accepting
2023-05-13 00:28
Save 77% on a year of Norton 360 and identity protection
Save 77% on a year of Norton 360 and identity protection
TL;DR: A one-year subscription to Norton 360 Standard and LifeLock Identity Advisor is on sale
2023-10-02 12:57
Coke Florida Names Theodore “Teddy” Mejeur as General Manager for Sarasota Territory
Coke Florida Names Theodore “Teddy” Mejeur as General Manager for Sarasota Territory
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2023-05-23 22:48
Grab this like-new Apple Watch Series 7 for $200 off
Grab this like-new Apple Watch Series 7 for $200 off
TL;DR: As of May 21, you can get this refurbished Apple Watch Series 7 for
2023-05-21 17:46